HEY NOBODY PERFECT ;)

Hey dad look at me
Think back and talk to me
Did I grow up according to plan?
Do you think I'm wasting my time doing things I wanna do?
but it hurts when you disapprove all along

And now I try hard to make it
I just want to make you proud
I'm never gonna be good enough for you
I can't pretend that I'm alright
And you can't change me

Cuz we lost it all
Nothing lasts forever
I'm sorry
I can't be perfect
Now it's just too late and
We can't go back
I'm sorry
I can't be perfect

I try not to think
About the pain I feel inside
Did you know you used to be my hero?
All the days you spend with me
Now seem so far away
And it feels like you don't care anymore

And now I try hard to make it
I just want to make you, proud
I'm never gonna be good enough for you
I can't stand another fight
And nothing's alright

Cuz we lost it all
Nothing lasts forever
I'm sorry
I can't be perfect
Now it's just too late and
We can't go back
I'm sorry
I can't be perfect

Nothing's gonna change the things that you said
Nothing's gonna make this right again
Please don't turn your back
I can't believe it's hard
Just to talk to you
But you don't understand

Cuz we lost it all
Nothing lasts forever
I'm sorry
I can't be perfect
Now it's just too late and
We can't go back
I'm sorry
I can't be perfect

I'm sorry
I can't be perfect
Now it's just too late and
We can't go back
I'm sorry
I can't be perfect


Okay, have you heard this song before? Definitely yes, right?
Yeah, maybe this is an old song, but I very very and very love ths song so much! Uuuuuuu :***
Why? Yeah, because this song may same as my life. Disappointed of my parents, depressed of couldn’t be a perfect person, a lot of demand, etc.
Hih do you ever feel the same like me? Okay, no problem. We can only try to being the perfect one. But, if we cant being the perfect one, no problem, because there aren’t perfect person in this world.
Quotes: “Tak ada gading yg tak retak”
So, gimana cara mengatasinya? Cobalah ikuti saran ini, yg kuambil dari pengalaman hidupku ;)



First, kita harus kuat dalam menghadapinya. Oh ya, mungkin mama kita cerewet, mungkin dia terlalu menuntut banyak kepada kita, mungkin ia terlalu berharap kepada kita, mungkin ia sering mengomeli kita, sekalipun ceramah panjang lebar, ataupun seering menganggap kita bodoh, maupun menyepelekan kita dan menganggap bahwa kita masih kecil.
Hey, ingatlah, dia galak bukan karena dia benci atau gak sayang mbek kita. Tapi, dia galak UNTUK KEBAIKAN KITA :’D
Mama mana sih yg membiarkan anaknya jadi jelek? Ibaratnya, membiarkan kita jatuh ke dalam jurang? Ndak mungkin ada, kan?
Dia menuntut kita jadi pintar, rajin, baik, berprestasi, karena ia gak mau kita jadi serong.


Second, mungkin suatu ketika ia melarang kita berteman dgn si A, atau si B, itu karena ia khawatir dgn siapa kita begaul. Ingatlah, “dengan siapa kita bergaul, di situlah diri kita terbentuk”
Mungkin kita gak bisa mbedain teman mana yg baik dan yg gak baik. Karena kita masih kecil, belum bisa menilai orang dgn baik. Kita hanya me nilai teman dgn tampang mereka, keeksisan mereka, ketajiran mereka, yg penting hepi deh. Gitu kan?
Nah, tetapi orang tua kita sudah dewasa, mereka udh ngerasain pahit manisnnya kehidupan, so pasti mereka lebih berpengalaman daripada kita, dan bisa menilai orang dgn baik.
Jadi, turutilah nasehat mereka, mereka ndak mungkin memblusukan kita, kan? Mereka hanya ingin kita jadi anak yg baik, kok ;)


Third, mungkin ia melarang kita untuk pacaran masa SMP, seperti kita ini. Mungkin sebagian dari kalian tidak setuju, atau mungkin malah setuju. Yah jujur aja, dulu sih aku memang gak setuju bgt dgn peraturan bullshit ini. Tapi, setelah kupikir-pikir, ternyata benar juga larangan ortu kita. Pacaran si masa SMP tuh ndak ada gunanya. Toh hanya cinta monyet, kan? Malah Cuma bikin sakit hati, ganggu pikiran, mengurangi konsen belajar, tambah dosa, dll.
Tapi, kalo Cuma sekedar naksir sih boleh, karena itu wajar bgt bagi remaja kayak kita gini…..
Yah, mungkin ada yg bilang pacaran itu baik, ada manfaatnyalah, dll. Iya kalo kita ambil sisi positifnya doang, ha sisi negatifnya pie? Bukankah itu lebih banyak? Ha?
Pacaran sih boleeehhh, asalkan KITA BISA MEMBATASI DIRI. Jangan sampai kita terjerumus pada hal yg tidak baik, misalkan seks bebas, atau amit-amit jabang bayi bisa nyampai hamil di luar nikah.
Gimana? Pasti kalian ndak mau kan bernasib kayak gitu? Nah, makanya pacaran yg sewajarnya aja. Malah mungkin itu bisa menambah semangat kita ke sekolah, menambah semangat belajar kita, menambah powerful dan cheerful kita. Yah semoga kalian bisa mengambil sisi positifnya, ya )

Finally, aku Cuma bisa bilang, plis turutilah nasehat dan larangan mereka, karena orang tua kita pasti tau yg terbaik buat kita.
Akhir kata, Im very sorry cuz I can only write this for you. Maybe I’ll continue it in the other day. May this little diary and tiny reflection can be useful, also benefit for your life :’) big thanks, God Bless Us Always














Signed: Ester Griselda Riadi